|My ghost of a shell|
I can just say, Listen. Be around, be available, be open, be kind, and just listen. Because when someone feels you're genuine they will come out of their inner world in time as they see you are trustworthy and reliable. That you are like everyone else who sizes them up in one look or assumes myths. You're just there to listen nothing more and nothing less. I heard a quote say once "are you listening to reply or are you listening to the person". We inner worldly beings know the difference because we people watch for entertainment but also to protect ourselves. We are always on high alert. I can always tell when someone is really listening to me as a person and when they're doing it out of duty or to look good or because that's what you're suppose to do. Just be honest and real. It always shines through.
|Help Me Find the Light|